Poor Wendy has had a nasty accident. Let me start at the beginning.
It was Richard’s birthday and Michelle had made him some fudge and asked me to make him a cake and some cheese puff so they could have afternoon tea here before going to eat out at Kalala.
I went to town to get him a birthday card and met Rachel on the way back home. She came with me with her two children. Oscar was a bit irritable so she settled him to sleep and she made the cheese puffs (very good they were, too) while I was making the cake and fiddling around with the fudge that hadn’t set properly.
Michelle had taken Richard to Canterbury to buy him something and they came back on a bus that took ages as it went all through the rural villages. So they turned up later than planned. Oscar woke up and was full of energy so he was very ready to play with Wendy when Caelyn and Nigel came. We gave Richard his cards and some cake. Wendy and Oscar were climbing on the coffee table, having a great time. I left then as I was off to visit Sean. When I was on the station, Michelle phoned to ask me to come back as they thought Wendy had broken her arm.
So when the accident happened, there were Caelyn, Nigel, Michelle, Richard, Rachel, Wendy, Oscar and baby Nicole in the flat. Michelle was getting dressed to take Richard out to dinner. Rachel was on the computer, Nigel was making coffee and Caelyn was in the bathroom. Then they heard screaming and went running to the lounge. Rachel got there first. Michelle realised that what had happened wasn’t just a knock so she examined Wendy and found her forearm bowed like a banana. Richard who is also a Carer agreed that it was broken and Michelle, Caelyn, Nigel and Richard took her straight to the William Harvey Hospital. Nigel was doing 90mph on the motorway because her crying and her pain was hurting him.
She has what they called a “buckle break”. Right arm radius and ulna broken near the wrist and near the elbow. From the x-ray they deduce that she fell backwards, put out her hand to break her fall and landed with her body weight on the arm. At this moment she is in the children’s ward, sedated with morphine. They have put a temporary Plaster of Paris on the arm and the Consultant will look at the x-rays in the morning to see if the arm needs to be set under anaesthetic.
Caelyn and Nigel are very upset to see their beloved baby in such a state. And it really doesn’t help that they are being treated with suspicion that they caused the injury. Nobody is going to break a baby’s arm with so many witnesses in the house. Just for a moment, little Oscar and Wendy were alone in the lounge. The Jungle Book video had just ended which is why a coffee break was decided upon and the evening was supposed to progress from there. But instead there were screams and Wendy had broken her arm. I suppose she and Oscar were climbing on the coffee table as they had been earlier but as nobody except Wendy and Oscar were there, nobody really knows what happened and they are too young to tell anyone what happened. It isn’t as if they were unsupervised for long periods and neither was it a particularly dangerous place. It was a sitting room with toys etc, not a rail track!
I suppose Caelyn and Nigel will be even more vigilant than usual now and I know this has been an appalling shock for them but they must realise they can only take reasonable safety precautions and they will cause harm in the long term if she is wrapped in cotton wool. Every parent has to take reasonable safety precautions and they do that. Their stairway at home has been made inaccessible to children, there are safety gates on the doors, special childproof locks on the cupboards. At my house there is nothing dangerous in the lounge – no knives, scissors, felt tipped pens, medicine, glasses, cups of hot drinks or anything else of that sort. It just shows you that for all the care you take, in the split second adult eyes are off the child, accidents can happen. Poor Caelyn felt her heart being ripped out when she had to hold Wendy down for her x-rays.
That poor little family. They are all hurting. May the Holy Spirit comfort them, and may the hospital be guided into the correct treatment, and may that little family be protected by God’s angels. May Peace rest on them and remain with them, now and forever.